Discovering Destiny (Part 18): Never Trade Forever For Right Now

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Today, we continue our focus on THE YEAR OF DISCOVERY, as we learn to maintain our posture of faith after God has revealed His plans for our future.

Yesterday, in our “Discovering Destiny” series, we met Jacob, the man God chose in the womb, before he had done anything good or bad. I told you we were going to take our time with Jacob, and today we slow down and step into the first scene of his story: a pot of stew, a hungry brother, and a trade that is still preaching thousands of years later.

Key scriptures for this year:

2 Peter 3:18 GNT“But continue to grow in the grace and in the knowledge of our Savior, Jesus Christ. To Him be glory now and forever.”

Luke 10:20 Mirror“It’s time for you to rediscover who you are from Heaven’s perspective.”

1 John 3:10 Mirror“There is a very visible and vast difference between living one’s life from your God identity or from a fallen man’s mindset.”

Proverbs 25:2 NKJV“It is the glory of God to conceal a matter, but the glory of kings is to search out a matter.”

Jeremiah 29:13 NIV“You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.”

Scripture we will study today:

Genesis 25:29-32 NKJV“Now Jacob cooked a stew; and Esau came in from the field, and he was weary. And Esau said to Jacob, ‘Please feed me with that same red stew, for I am weary.’ Therefore his name was called Edom. But Jacob said, ‘Sell me your birthright as of this day.’ And Esau said, ‘Look, I am about to die; so what is this birthright to me?'”

Genesis 25:33-34 NKJV“Then Jacob said, ‘Swear to me as of this day.’ So he swore to him, and sold his birthright to Jacob. And Jacob gave Esau bread and stew of lentils; then he ate and drank, arose, and went his way. Thus Esau despised his birthright.”

Supporting scriptures:

Genesis 25:23 KJV“And the LORD said unto her, Two nations are in thy womb, and two manner of people shall be separated from thy bowels; and the one people shall be stronger than the other people; and the elder shall serve the younger.”

Genesis 25:27-28 NKJV“So the boys grew. And Esau was a skillful hunter, a man of the field; but Jacob was a mild man, dwelling in tents. And Isaac loved Esau because he ate of his game, but Rebekah loved Jacob.”

Hebrews 12:16-17 NKJV“Lest there be any fornicator or profane person like Esau, who for one morsel of food sold his birthright. For you know that afterward, when he wanted to inherit the blessing, he was rejected, for he found no place for repentance, though he sought it diligently with tears.”

1 John 2:17 NKJV“And the world is passing away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides forever.”

Ephesians 1:11 NKJV“In Him also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestined according to the purpose of Him who works all things according to the counsel of His will.”

Setting the Stage:

Yesterday, I pointed out something you may have never noticed before: before the twins were ever born, God told Rebekah, “The elder shall serve the younger.” The plan was settled in the womb. Now watch how the story unfolds. The twins are born. Esau comes out first, red and hairy, and Jacob comes out second, with his hand locked on his brother’s heel. The boys grow up as opposites. Esau becomes a skillful hunter, a man’s man, outside in the field. He became his father’s favorite because Isaac loved the taste of his BBQ (the way he cooked the game he caught). Jacob was much quieter. He spent his time near the tents, and he became mama’s favorite. He was a mama’s boy. So we have one house, two boys, and two parents playing favorites. Keep this dysfunction in mind, because it will matter later in this series.

Then came one seemingly ordinary afternoon. Jacob was cooking a pot of stew. Esau stumbled in from the field, exhausted and hungry, and said, “Give me some of that red stew.” And Jacob, the heel-grabber, seized the opportunity and manipulated his brother. He said, “Sell me your birthright.” Esau was so hungry that he did it. And just like that, one brother seemingly despised his destiny (not valuing it), and the other brother, the conniving one, was scheming for it.

So, what does this mean for you today? A few things.

1. Your Preordained Blessing Is Bigger Than You Think.

For me to explain to you the magnitude of the trade between Jacob and Esau, you have to understand what a birthright was. The birthright belonged to the firstborn son, and it carried three things:

a) A double portion of the inheritance, b) Headship over the family when the father died, c) And the spiritual leadership of the house.

But in THIS family, the birthright carried something no other family on earth had. It carried the covenant God made with Abraham. The nation. The land. The lineage of the Messiah. Whoever held this birthright was holding the promise that would one day bless every family on the planet. All of that is what was simmering in a pot of stew once Esau connected to the blessing in it.

I know Esau did not realize what he was doing. But do you? Esau was trading his place in the plan of God. Now, you and I may not have a position like that. But every believer has something that is also settled in God’s Kingdom: a preordained blessing. God made plans for you before the foundation of the world, and He attached blessing to those plans before you ever showed up.

How this applies to you:

— Ephesians 1:11 NKJV says, “In Him also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestined according to the purpose of Him who works all things according to the counsel of His will.” In Christ, you have a preordained blessing, and like Jacob’s birthright, it was assigned before you were born.

— You did not earn your blessing, and that is the point. A preordained blessing comes by new birth, not by performance. When you got born again, you were born into it. So your job is not to work for it, but rather to discern it (discover it), and receive it by faith.

— The enemy cannot take your preordained blessing, so his whole strategy is to get you to either give up on it or to trade it for something else.

— Many believers live beneath their preordained blessing, not because it was lost, but because it was never discovered. You cannot value what you have not discovered.

— Other believers live beneath their preordained blessing, because they do not value it. They have chosen to trade God’s plan for their own selfish desires.

— If you become too familiar (too casual) with what God’s promise, you will not value it. Familiarity is dangerous. Esau grew up next to the promise, and it became common to him. Do not let what heaven calls priceless become casual to you.

— Before you make another major decision, ask this question: Does this choice honor the blessing God preordained for me or discount it?

2. An Immediate Appetite Is The Enemy Of Destiny.

Now look at Esau. He comes in from the field weary, smells the stew, and says, “Look, I am about to die; so what is this birthright to me?” Wait a minute. About to die? This man was not dying. He was just hungry. But that is what appetite does. Appetite exaggerates. Appetite takes a craving and makes it feel like an emergency. There had to be a voice in Esau somewhere saying, “This is a terrible trade.” But his hunger spoke louder than his conscience.

How this applies to you:

— Hebrews 12:16 NKJV says Esau sold his birthright “for one morsel of food.” One meal. One moment. One appetite. I call these Esau moments: the moments when what you crave right now argues against what God promised you forever. The trade is never worth it.

— Appetite always overstates the urgency. The flesh screams NOW; destiny whispers FOREVER.

— 1 John 2:17 NKJV says, “The world is passing away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides forever.” Every craving is temporary. Every promise of God is permanent. Never trade the permanent for the temporary. And never make a permanent decision based on a temporary feeling.

— Notice WHEN the trade happened: Esau was tired and hungry. The enemy does not tempt you at your strongest; he waits until you are weak.

— One moment of appetite can cost you decades. Hebrews 12:17 says Esau later sought the blessing “diligently with tears” and could not reverse the trade.

— Wise men do not let their stomach sign contracts. I have made my fair share of poor decisions, and many of them came when I was “caught up in the moment” so much that I failed to consider the long-term implications of what I was signing up for.

3. What You Despise, You Lose; What You Value, You Walk Into.

Here is the verdict the Bible pronounces over this scene: Genesis 25:34 does not say, “Thus Esau lost his birthright.” It says, “Thus Esau despised his birthright.” The loss was just the receipt. The despising was the sin. To despise something does not mean you hate it. It means you treat it as light, common, and unimportant. Esau did not wake up that morning hating the covenant of Abraham. He just never treasured it. And meanwhile, look at Jacob. His methods were wrong (we are going to deal with his methods in the coming days), but his hunger was pointed at the right thing. Jacob WANTED the birthright. He valued the promise of God enough to scheme for it. And here is what that tells me: God can do more with someone who is flawed, but wants it, than with someone who has the right to it, but could care less.

How this applies to you:

— Genesis 25:34 NKJV says, “Thus Esau despised his birthright.” God does not record this as a bad trade. God records it as contempt for (a devaluation of) the promise.

— If you don’t value God’s blessing and you neglect it, you can lose it and then live to regret it.

— Value is not what you say; value is what you protect. Look at your calendar and your choices, and you will see what you actually treasure.

— I can look at your checking account (meaning your spending record) and your calendar and see what you value. What you value, you invest in with time, energy, and resources.

— One of the reasons why Isabella and I are in the Dominican Republic right now is that we’ve been having meeting after meeting to get ready for a group of missionaries who are going to arrive this weekend (when we could just be chilling), is because we value what God has called us to do. Since we value it, we are willing to pay the cost for it.

— Jacob was flawed, but he was hungry for the things of God, and God worked with him. Bring God your hunger, and let Him fix your issues. God can do more with a hungry, flawed person than a dismissive person with less flaws.

— Some of you have been despising your preordained blessing without realizing it: skipping the Word, neglecting prayer, treating your calling like a hobby. Treat the promise like it is priceless, because it is.

— Esau wept later, but tears could not reverse what his foolishness had traded away. Do not wait for the tears to teach you the value.

4. You Never Have To Scheme For What God Already Promised.

Now let me show you the twist in this story, because Jacob does not get a pass today either. Go back to Genesis 25:23. Before either boy was born, God had already decreed, “The elder shall serve the younger.” Did you catch that? The birthright was already coming to Jacob. God said it. It was settled in heaven before it was ever contested in the kitchen. Jacob did not need to catch his brother in a weak moment. All Jacob needed to do was trust what God had already spoken. But Jacob did not know how to rest in a promise yet, so he manipulated his way into it.

How this applies to you:

— Genesis 25:23 KJV says, “the elder shall serve the younger.” God said it before the boys were born. The promise was never in danger. The only thing Jacob’s scheming changed was Jacob’s journey. This teaches us that our foolish decisions may not change our destiny, but they will impact the route we take to it.

— What God has promised you does not need your manipulation; it needs your faith.

— God operates by GRACE, and we operate by FAITH. Manipulation is faith’s counterfeit. It is you trying to make happen by flesh what God already settled by decree.

— If you have to lie to get it, either it is not God’s promise, or it is not God’s timing.

— Scheming for a promise does not speed it up; it slows it down. Jacob’s shortcut bought him two decades of running.

— The highest form of faith is rest. You can pursue your destiny with everything in you and still be at rest, because the outcome sits on God’s decree, not your hustle.

— Stop grabbing heels. Your destiny is not something you take from somebody else; it is something God assigned to you before the foundation of the world.

That’s enough for today.

Declaration of Faith:

Father, I thank You that I have a preordained blessing in Christ that I did not earn!

I will not trade what You promised forever to satisfy what I crave right now!

My appetite will not make my decisions; my assignment will!

I will not despise what heaven calls priceless!

I bring You my hunger, and I let You fix my methods!

What I value, I walk into, and I value Your plan for my life!

I do not have to scheme for what You already decreed!

Your promise does not need my manipulation; it needs my faith!

I will rest in the promise while You work on the process!

This is THE YEAR OF DISCOVERY, and GREATER IS COMING FOR ME!

I declare this by faith. In Jesus’ name. Amen!

This is Today’s Word. Apply it and prosper!